{"id":3721,"date":"2018-04-21T05:00:14","date_gmt":"2018-04-21T12:00:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.real-talk.org\/?p=3721"},"modified":"2020-10-22T22:32:21","modified_gmt":"2020-10-23T05:32:21","slug":"real-talk-share-how-i-met-my-disabled-partner","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.real-talk.org\/real-talk-share-how-i-met-my-disabled-partner\/","title":{"rendered":"How I Met My Disabled Partner"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Fran\u00a0<\/strong><br \/>\n<i>Fran is Real Talk&#8217;s Sexual Health Outreach Facilitator who will be scouring the internet for wonderful tidbits, articles, resources, links, and sharing them here. Fran is also an artist, a trauma survivor and lives with diverse abilities. Fran uses &#8220;They\/Them&#8221; pronouns.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>This is a BBC show called Ouch, where people take over the show and talk about matters important to them. 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